After a break-up, some women are 100% sure that it is over. These women know that they are better off and they have no plans to ever try again with the ex. These women understand why the relationship ended, and they realize that unless their ex changes in some significant ways, getting back together would not be beneficial for either party.
However, there exists another group of women who know that they don’t want to be with anyone else. These women are not over their ex, and they are not seeing things as clearly as their friends or family. These women want him back. To offer some encouragement to these women, we are going to tell explain to you how to get him back and how to get him back fast!
Getting him back will not be an easy task. In fact, it will include doing some things that you normally wouldn’t do and some that you may not even want to do. You may even have to act like someone besides yourself. That is why it is so important to be sure that getting him back is what you really want. You will have to act differently than you normally do. You will have resist your urge to call, text and constantly check Facebook. Most people would not be willing to pay this high of a price to get him back. However, those people who are unable to move forward will find themselves doing this.
The first thing you need to do is accept him for who he is. In other words, you need to accept that what you see with him is what you get. You should not look at what he could be, but rather, what he actually is. He will show you this not only by his words, but his actions as well. The question that you will need to ask yourself is if you can live with who he currently is. Now that you’ve had some time away from him, you will know for certain if you can actually accept his terms.
You need to be sure if you actually miss him, or just the idea of him. To make this clearer for you, make yourself a list of things you like about him. This will help you decide if the two of you are compatible enough to make a relationship work long-term. The relationship has to be more than just passionate kissing. It is of the utmost importance to be clear when making this decision. It is also crucial to keep your dignity and self-esteem in mind as you work on getting him back. You must accept yourself and who you are right now, just like you accepted him for who he is. This is an exercise in learning to love yourself.
Once you learn to love yourself and start living your life the way you want to, you may notice him starting to re-enter your life. By this time, it is likely that you won’t want him back because by then, you will have realized that you deserve a better partner than someone who makes you compromise your own beliefs and values. There is no point in worrying about what you’ll do then. You will know what to do when the time comes. Right now, you need to own your feelings and live your best life. Perhaps most importantly, you need to let yourself feel like it’s okay to want him back, while simultaneously knowing that he is not what’s best for you.